sfux:

i feel like people who eat breakfast really have their lives together

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Anonymous asked: You look pretty unsure. Like you don't know how you feel. So you don't feel confident in your relationship, and you don't know how to feel there either.

Just outta curiosity, without commenting on the analysis itself, how did you pull that much from my “Am I really taking a selfie?” face?

Ahh. You were saying, “How confident in your relationship are you?” instead of “How confident are you about yourself since you’ve been complimented by complete strangers?” My bad.

Anonymous asked: I guess that makes sense. What if he came to you tomorrow and said that he wanted that?

Then I’d say, “Slow down, champ.” 

And we’d talk about it. In-depth. And no decision would be make right there on the spot. 

Anonymous asked: Woops, I was asking about your relationship, not you. So since you answered about yourself, same question only about your relationship. Or, by your reaction to what I said, was my unintentional analysis accurate?

No, I think things are fine. He’s in Nevada for the summer, and I’m in Indiana, but we’re making it work just fine. 

Anonymous asked: How confident are you now?

That depends. How skeptical do I look in that picture? d:

Anonymous asked: What if he gave you an ultimatum?

I don’t do ultimatums.

An ultimatum would make me significantly less confident in our relationship’s ability to work out in the future. 

Anonymous asked: How far have you and your boyfriend gone? Regret any of it? I remember a while ago you said "Top, if I ever get there. I'd be lying if I said I was comfortable with the idea in the first place." Is that still how you feel, or do you think you could eventually make that commitment?

I’m not gonna answer entirely, but we’ve definitely not gone there yet. I think I could eventually make that commitment, but maybe I’m old-school. I don’t think I could let someone inside or expect someone to let someone inside them—literally, as I’m painfully sidestepping bluntness here—unless there were some kind of legally binding commitment (i.e. a ring involved).